From the time i started observing people,i always noticed that every person is so different from each other. Every person have a inner self to whom he talks ,he discuss and then take a decision. We sometimes just consult a problem to our self and find a solution for it. We really don't require any one else to make decisions, judge things or solve problems. The more right decisions we make, the more we become confident and we really feel Intelligent...but is that the only criteria we can feel intelligent? Only the power related to mind and high IQ decides that we are intelligent or not??? Only a literate who has a higher degree is intelligent??? Only the man sitting at a higher position in work place is intelligent??? Is IQ destiny???
I will say NO to every such question.
I feel the person who is emotionally equipped is more intelligent. I feel the person who has self awareness and impulse control is more intelligent. He could be beggar or a millionaire, he could be from any religion any caste and from any culture.The person who has emotional qualities excel,his relationships flourish and he is a star in workplace.
At present some people in my life are really important, they are my present and i would love to have those people with me in future too..I will not mention their names but will surely mention their Emotional Intelligence qualities which have really impressed me up.....
Starting with a person, whom with when i talk ,she make me realize that Everything in the universe has a purpose, indeed the invisible intelligence that flows through everything in a purposeful fashion is also flowing through me. She is most important for me, because when I think of her ,i am with her. By miles she is really far, but through senses very near. She is my Friend first as she always says and i can live through whole life by just her talks and compliments which are really very few. She is emotionally vulnerable .She adapts to situations so quickly and really offer the required emotions and love to the people near by her.Her family comes first to her, though she keeps fighting with her inner self to make adjustments.When she shares her thoughts she looks so sacrificing sometimes but then that's what makes her intelligent....She is always ready to make the people around her smile, she understands every feeling,every relation so well and creates such a balance that every relation looks at her with smile...SHE IS SUCH A SADU...
Now let me discuss about someone "who is waiting for his U turn". The guy is really smart in what ever he does, a good looking person, a great sportsman, a great philosopher, a star in work place and a great friend.He has plenty of one liners in his kitty, and he really can make u smile in any situation. He don't follow rules set by others, he believes in making them himself. He makes me realize that Nature never repeats herself and possibilities of one human soul will never be found in another. Its very easy to show a particular emotion, but the emotional quality he has is that he shows every emotion at the right time, to the right degree,to the right person,for the right purpose and with the right way, which is really not easy for every one...He is sensitive to every little thing going around him, but then he is specific in choosing between them. When you will meet him him you will get to know that It is not God's function to create or uncreate the circumstances and conditions of your life,God created you,in the image and likeness of god,you have created the rest.
Then comes the turn of a person,who is really beautiful. She is Miss TOM for me as she calls me JERRY. She really loves someone and really respects and cares for him.By her I always learn that Do the good you can,by all the means you can,in all the ways you can,at all the times you can,as long as you can.She may be a soft beauty from outside but she is really a metal heart from inside..She never fights facts,she deals with them. The couple silently tells the world that we shall know the state of love only when the jealousy,envy,possessiveness,domination come to an end.
THE examples are lot, but these three shares all the emotional qualities which make me learn and make me stronger everyday i talk to them.......for me any problem can be solved if i consult them......
JASS
